Congratulations you're engaged! After you adjust to the idea that you are going to be married (yippee!) one of the very first things you should do is talk to your beau about your overall wedding budget. First things first who is paying for your wedding? You? Your parents? Your future hubby? Make sure you're both comfortable with your decision! Now that you have decided how to fund your big day, decide on the budget that is right for you and the type of wedding you want! Once I had my budget all figured out I went to weddingwire.com which is a great site that calculates your budget! A budget calculator breaks down your overall budget and tells you where you can spend and where you should save, unless you have unlimited funds it is a much suggested tool! The best part? It's FREE!!
Best wishes on finding the perfect budget for your perfect day!
Side Note:
Talking about money can be very uncomfortable for some people, don't be harsh or demanding when talking to your fiance and your families. Keep it lighthearted and friendly! Thinking of talking with both of your families at the same time? Don't introduce your families to talk about their contribution as a group, it could cause tension. Instead visit with one family at a time to listen to their ideas and input and possibly their contributions!
Great advice!
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